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There are many misconceptions about New York and its inhabitants. I’m not sure if New Yorkers want it this way, but it’s true in my experience. Certainly New Yorkers move at speeds just a bit faster than most others, there is an excessive amount of honking, and most everyone wears black. I think it’s required that one must wear at least one item of black clothing. However, there are many stereotypes about the city and its people that I had difficulty pro
ving. The first, that New Yorkers are rude. Not true. Sure they have their moments, but I would view it as being more “direct” than anything. The majority of my experience was thoughtful, helpful, and downright courteous souls that were willing to do what needed to be done. They are genuine in their approach and quickly move on when the task is complete. Now I live in a supposedly friendly West Coast city where the people are not as nearly as good hearted. Sure, in my town, they may walk down the street with a smile and give you a nod as you pass, but most are also not willing to provide any assistance when needed. In addition, you never really know where you stand with most of these people. Not in New York. Good or bad you always seem to have an idea of how the situation is going to unfold.
The second misconception, that New York is overwhelming. Yes, it is a city of over 8 million people and can be difficult to navigate at times, but common sense will prevail. There are plenty of landmarks by which to get your bearings, helpful signs to steer you in the right direction, and a
century old subway system that is clean and efficient. As with any trip, plan ahead. Pick up a Lonely Planet or Moon guide and understand the basics. From there, decide on the attractions that you must see, would like to see, and the ones that would be nice to see. Break those down by location and budget, then buy a comfortable pair of walking shoes. In the end, hopefully you will have seen most of what you wanted and can save the rest for next time. I’m sure they’ll be waiting for you. Later in this article I’ll provide you with my top picks.
Third, New York City is filthy and there are rats everywhere. Even this one surprised me, as I like a bit of grit and was fully expecting it. I’m here to say New York is clean. Granted, it’s not spotless, but compared to the likes of Los Angeles, San Francisco, or even Las Vegas, it’s a clean place. Very little litter on the streets, limited graffiti, and very few visible rats. I’d been told that I’d see rats all over, and giant ones at that. In eight days I saw two and one of those was in Coney Island. Giant rats? No, about the size of a small cat. I’m sure they’re lurking in the dark, dank places that aren’t meant for me to see, but isn’t that the point? Out of sight, out of mind?
Now I understand those tacky “I heart NY” t-shirts that every tourist seems to buy. It’s true. New York is a city that is beloved. But most of that love is not from the millions of people that flock to Times Square and the top of the Empire State building. That love comes from people that live there day after day. They have pride in this remarkable city and they wear it as a badge of honor. If you have never been, go. If you have been before, go again. And if you experience it every day, you are very fortunate to call New York City home.
Here are my New York City tourist tips:
And the food:
Featured 'hood: Park Slope, Brooklyn
They say that Park Slope is the part of Brooklyn that families relocating from Manhattan gravitate towards. Well kept brownstones, large parks and plenty of quaint eateries probably play a big part in this decision. With less commotion, it still feels like New York City.
I feel fortunate that we chose to stay in Park Slope during most of our recent visit. It’s away from all the other tourists and it provided a nice break from the high prices of almost everything in Manhattan. Some call it one of the first areas in Brooklyn’s rapid gentrification. This is most apparent on 5th and 7th Streets. There are plenty good food, quality spirits and a diverse group of New Yorkers going about their lives without the disruption that comes with “out of towners” like us. Though often apparent that we did not reside in Park Slope, we were always made to feel like we were from the ‘hood.
It should be noted that hotels are rare in these parts and though less expensive than Manhattan, it can be a bit more of a challenge to find a place. We found a reasonably priced, yet worn around the edges room in a shared brownstone on VRBO. It worked out well, but I recommend doing your homework and finding a place with at least a handful of recommendations.
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Uwajimaya has a lot of strange Asian candies & packaged foods. Shopping there is like a wee vacation to a major Asian metropolis encapsulated in a one block area. It’s crowded but fun. I can hardly read any of the food packaging. You can spice up a dull day by purchasing something there which you have no idea what it is & making it. It’s a surprise! Fortunately, many of the cooking instructions are accompanied by pictures.
They not only sell groceries & produce, which are often cheaper than at most chain grocery stores, by the way, but contain a bookstore that stocks periodicals, stationery & manga. The candy section & impulse racks are unbelievable, you won’t have a clue what most of it is, & some of it looks like REAL BUGS. (I dare you.) The food court, inexplicably, has a Herfy’s hamburger stand in addition to Japanese, Chinese, Korean & Filipino food stalls. There are also Asian specialty housewares, appliances, & Sanrio products. Combining the latter two, I once saw a waffle iron for sale here that made waffles in the shape of Hello Kitty’s head. I wish I had bought it. Regrets…
So if you want to feel like you are in a foreign city for the day or you just need a takoyaki maker, take a trip to Waji. It’s an adventure. FP